Understanding child behaviour problems
All children test limits, have tantrums and go through difficult phases. Behaviour becomes a concern when it is frequent, intense, persists for months, or affects the child’s learning, friendships or family life. Behaviour is often a child’s way of communicating feelings they cannot yet put into words.
Behaviour problems can be linked with many factors — anxiety, low mood, learning difficulties, ADHD, autism, bullying, family stress, changes such as a new sibling or a move, sleep problems or excessive screen use. In adolescents, irritability, withdrawal or falling grades may signal depression, anxiety or substance use.
Understanding what lies behind the behaviour is the first step. Parents are partners in care and are never blamed.
Common signs
- Frequent, intense tantrums beyond the expected age
- Aggression towards others, breaking things or hurting themselves
- Refusing to go to school or complaining of stomach aches before school
- Lying, stealing or repeated rule-breaking
- Excessive screen or gaming use with anger when limited
- Sudden withdrawal, sadness, fearfulness or loss of interest
- Changes in sleep, eating or school performance
Having some of these signs doesn’t mean you have a condition. A professional assessment helps make sense of them.
When to see a psychiatrist
Consult if behaviour is causing significant difficulties at home or school for more than a few weeks, if teachers have raised concerns, or if you feel you have tried everything and are exhausted.
Seek urgent help if your child talks about self-harm, is harming themselves or others, or shows sudden severe changes in behaviour.
How treatment works at The Peaceful Mind
Assessment involves meeting the child and parents together and separately, gathering information from school where helpful, and understanding the child’s development, temperament, health and environment.
The main treatment is usually parent guidance and behavioural strategies: consistent routines, praise for positive behaviour, calm limits, managing screen time and improving communication. Children and teenagers may benefit from counselling to build emotional and social skills. Medicines are considered only when a specific condition such as ADHD, severe anxiety or depression is identified and other measures are not enough.
Talk to Dr. Vibha about child behaviour problems
In-clinic in Ravet or online · English, मराठी, हिंदी · Confidential
Questions people ask
Children of any age can be assessed. For young children, much of the work is done with parents.
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